Okay, so an update:
On Friday, our buyer pulled out of contract to buy our house. As depressing as that was for a minute, it is really a great blessing...we are overwhelmingly blessed by so many good people...things happen for a reason, and we are not sad, we understand there may be bigger and better things in store for us...
I will still update - but for now, the house is on the market again for about 30 more days or so- we are having Jake's crew put on a new roof this week, we are having some electrical work done by our friend JR, and so things are great. After the 30 days, we will pull it and then relist in the Spring. We are not at a loss here- we feel like we are doing all we are supposed to do, and so things will be fine...whether we stay here this winter, or whether it sells this week...we will be fine.
We know we are going to move, we KNOW that- it is just not today...perhaps soon...perhaps not...but it really doesn't matter- I know whom I put my trust in and that is where we leave it.